We often go crazy trying to find something that makes us feel good in days of absolute insecurity and it is not surprising that despite having a thousand different looks to wear, we are not comfortable in any of them.

Anyone who thinks that fashion is just clothes, is missing the great sense of identity that is obtained through it. It is not a question of spending millions on branded garments, nor your self-esteem falling on superficiality, but of showing yourself as you are through what you project with your style.

Even girls who think they don’t have a defined style, have it, and what we use at work or at home tell us who we are, what we like and what not, it doesn’t matter if it meets the rules of modern aesthetics.

All this relationship that women have developed with fashion through the centuries is not at all way for us to turn the heads of men. It has always been that way and it´s true that a woman with self-confidence, character and strength, dresses for herself and in a certain way so that other women take it as a reference, and it should be like that, even if we fall on the topic of wanting to please and be liked by others.

In certain aspects, one can take into account the impression that is generated towards the opposite sex, but only in specific situations and particular moments, the rest of the time the woman invests time in her because she wants to feel satisfied with what she projects to the world.

For this reason, a woman who has no interest in impressing any man, takes into account the following aspects when dressing herself:

You have to love and accept your curves or the kind of physique that you have. You must feel comfortable and happy with your figure and the body that you have. Dressing without fear of “not fitting” with stereotypes is the number one rule of a safe and stylish woman. Regardless of your body, you can look great if you learn to choose the garments that flatter you and that you like.

Try to take care of your feet and put your health and comfort before the pain, because not all women want to wear heels and that that doesn’t mean they have less femininity or style. You have the actress Gal Gadot as a reference, who came to the premiere of the film “Wonder Woman” using flats. It made very clear that the only way to look awesome is to feel comfortable.

Emphasize your sexiest side whenever you want to feel sensual and not because you believe that showing more skin will get you more attention. A woman with confidence will show her sexier side because she feels good about herself, not because she wants to impress anyone.

You will get ready according to your mood. Sometimes you will feel gorgeous, worthy of a catwalk, and other times you will only want the practicality of jeans and a basic blouse, some accessories, a pair of comfortable shoes and a bag that combines. You dress to express what you have inside, it is normal that you don’t feel like putting make-up every day.

A strong woman can wear all kinds of clothes: dresses and heels, but also a tailor suit, sacks, hats and flat shoes. The combinations and options we have are endless, especially if your thing is transmitting your internal strength through your looks.

The outfit I have chosen for today is a basic one that must not be absent in your wardrobe; A tight black dress with a round neckline from H&M (on sale), a blouse/dress from ZARA WOMAN (new) that you can combine with jeans or a dress like in today’s look, it brings color and movement to our dress, I added some ankle boots from MANGO (new) but you can use some flats, sneakers or heels to mold it to your style.

I hope you liked it and that you look forward to more, that you look forward to next week’s post.

Meanwhile, dress with color and live with a lot of love.